With constant changes and turbulence still a huge part of our kids’ school lives, it’s up to us parents to look out for them at home. Early childhood experts are encouraging parents to focus on their child’s wellbeing, especially in the face of another potentially difficult year.
One such expert, Professor Marjory Ebbeck from UniSA, says that while COVID-19 remains prominent in media and everyday discussions, helping children think positively about school will be important for their mental health and wellbeing.
“With debate surrounding sufficient availability of Pfizer vaccinations for primary school children (aged 5-11 years), and ‘bi-model’ learning (face-to-face learning for reception and years 1, 2, 7, 8 and 12; and home schooling for all others), it’s not surprising that parents and children alike are confused and concerned about the current scenario,” Marjory says.
“For the past few years, children have heard, seen and experienced school closures and state lockdowns, as well as food, grocery and now vaccine shortages – they’ve seen it on TV, heard their parents talk about it, and had to adopt their new safe health practices, including mask-wearing and social distancing.”
Studies show that more than a third of Australian parents say that their children (from babies to 18-year-olds) have been negatively affected by the pandemic, showing increased anxiety, problems with sleep and a sense of disconnection with their friends.
“Focussing on the positives of school and building your child’s sense of confidence and wellbeing is extremely important,” says Marjory. “Reassure children that school is a safe place, that they’ll be able to play with their friends, see familiar spaces, and have great books to read.
“Remind them that their teachers are looking forward to seeing them, and that they’ll get to do lots of fun and exciting activities with their classmates. At the same time, parents can also support children’s wellbeing through practical things such as ensuring their child gets enough sleep as well as enough outdoor play, cutting back on technology, and settling back into a regular routine.”
In Australia, an estimated 314,000 children aged four to 11 (almost 14 per cent) experience a mental disorder. According to the World Health Organization, there is strong evidence that mental disorders in childhood and adolescence predict mental illness in adulthood.
Marjory says that reciprocal, positive relationships with teachers are also central to their children’s wellbeing.
“Parents have a tough job,” she says. “Not only do they need to cope with the pandemic in relation to their job, home-schooling and managing their own mental health, but they want to make sure their children are keeping up with their education, in whatever format it takes.”
It’s important to recognise that starting school is stressful for parents, but at the same time, can also be challenging for teachers.
- “Have confidence that your child’s teacher will address their learning needs and give them enough space and trust to do so,” says Marjory. “Building positive, reciprocal relationships with those who are part of your child’s life will facilitate a seamless transition to school and demonstrate positive partnerships that will fare well in their future.”